Happy Halloween! The weather was actually nice today (not nearly cold enough to need a jacket, some blue sky, and no rain!) so we decided to venture out to THE Pumpkin Patch on Sauvie Island.
Immi is a Halloween Faery today.
And Ashland is a Dracula. (I know Draculas in movies don’t have tridents, but I thought it’s only fair since Immi gets a faery wand).
There were of course pumpkin patches everywhere on Suvie Island…
…But who wants to get muddy in pumpkin patches (we saw people coming out of corn maze, hay rides, and pumpkin patch completely covered in mud probably because it had rained yesterday!) when we can frolic in fields of flowers?
The field was beautiful in slightly macabre sort of way that is autumn, with flowers in various stages of life cycle — some still trying to bloom despite the cooler weather…
…And others decaying.
Immi and Ashland didn’t get any candies, but we stopped by a cafe on the way home where Immi got hot chocolate and Ashland got chocolate chip cookie.
Todd and I dread flu season, not so much because we are scared of flu, but because doctors we’ve had has been very pushy about flu vaccines. Usually, we say “We’ll Think about it” and then not go back to get them — but pediatricians often nearly succeeds in making me feel guilty for not ‘sparing our kids from flu’. Anyhow, the pediatric office we’ve been going to is much slower paced than one in Virginia so when our doctor tried to convince all four (…or 5, depending on how you count!) of us to get flu shots, we asked him a whole bunch of questions. Not surprisingly though, we didn’t really get any useful answers out of him. He basically repeated over and over that “1) People do die from flu, 2) No one has EVER died from flu vaccine, 3) Complications are rare 4) There’s no preservatives in the shot Ashland will be getting”.
We aren’t anti-vaccine really. All of us get vaccinated for all the big ones most people get thinking that vaccines’ benefits do out weigh the risks. But with flu vaccines, it seems ineffective for most part (I have a suspicion that doctors forecasting which flu strain will be ‘in season’ is about as reliable as weather forecast), and you have to get one EVERY YEAR — and I have some concerns about long term and cumulative effects of various stuff in the vaccine.
Anyhow, the doctor probably got fed up with us and eventually gave us the information insert for the flu vaccine! So whatever my opinions are regarding this issue, the fact is that it contains Formaldehyde, and Octylphenol Ethoxylate. Many people have many opinions about effects of these substances but in short, they are toxic. The doctor was right about pediatric version of the vaccine not containing any preservative, but the one Todd and I were offered does list 25 mcg of mercury as a preservative.
Other serious concerns I had with the information sheet is where it says that it is “not known whether _vaccine brand name_ can cause fetal harm when administered to a pregnant woman or can affect reproduction capacity” and also that if you are nursing “It is not known whether ___ is excreted in human milk.” This is when all pregnant woman who are in second/third trimester during flu season is STRONGLY RECOMMENDED to get vaccinated (and in fact both our pediatrician and my OB offered me one). And then even if you aren’t pregnant, it admits that “___ have not been evaluated for carcinogenic or mutagenic potential, or for impairment of fertility.” As to why it hasn’t been evaluated, I have no idea considering one of their ingredient is a known carcinogenic substance.
I’m reasonably sure that, as long as this batch of vaccine wasn’t somehow faulty and we aren’t allergic to any of the ingredients, we’d probably be just fine getting one dose. But when I think about the consequence of taking this into our bodies every year for the rest of our lives…well, I’m not sure if I want to do that (for what seems to me a very marginal benefit). Besides, none of us have gotten flu for as long as we can remember without getting the flu vaccine, and even if we get the vaccine, the doctor admits we might still catch a different flu. I’m not telling you that you should or shouldn’t get one (I can easily see if I were a daycare center staff, or work in a hospital, I might choose differently) but we decided to opt out of flu vaccine and instead try to lead a healthy lifestyle that incorporates immune system boosting diet. And if we do catch a flu, we’ll be sure to get necessary medical attention at that point.
…And when I poked around online for a bit regarding this matter, I found that it is true that people do die from flu but it’s not statistically so common (…and I mean you can also die from A LOT of other things.) and that it might not necessarily be the case that no one has died from flu vaccine — I’m leaving out sources here on purpose — but just that some of these suspecting cases were left “inconclusive”.
Such a lot of words and and no picture would be sad so here’s an unrelated picture. We found this creepy-cute doll while thrifting. Todd took the photo (and no, we didn’t buy it!), and I’ve taken the liberty to edit it since I like it
I made a faery princess wand for immi. She’s gone through many many wands over past few years (it’s easily one of her favorite toys) because they break all the time! I got tired of store bought wands getting irreparably broken only to end up in the landfill, so I made one that’s less fragile (and anyhow easily repaired with things I already have on hand). The stick portion is made from a light weight but quite solid aluminum tube so I don’t think that it’ll be cracking anytime soon. The star is wool-felt — it should be reasonably safe for immi to wave around.
I’ve been in the mood for embroidery lately — which is kinda silly since it’s a perfect knitting weather! I just finished this one stitched on a canvas tote. The design is from Urban Threads, though I’ve modified a few little things.
I watched first half of the movie Bright Star 2 days ago on instant Netflix (I went to add it to the cue and found it on instant!). This is one of very very few movies I actually considered going to the movie theater for in the past several years (I’ve come to dislike movie theaters for various reasons). What peaked my interest about this film is the reportedly carefully put together needlework scenes and I have yet to finish watching the film but the needlework shots are amazingly beautiful and probably was worth viewing in the theater.
Firstly, can I just say I’m so glad to have my computer in working order? Pretty much immediately after I got everything working on it (thanks to Todd who went down the list and did everything for me knowing that I’d put it off forever) Immi bumped into my cup of tea which splashed onto the keyboard. …And unfortunately, it did do some quite serious damage. But the Apple store people were so very nice and fixed it for me free of charge (Out of sympathy I suppose! I mean this thing is literally BRAND NEW!) despite that accidental damage like this isn’t covered under warranty.
Anyhow, we had a prenatal appointment today, I’m 35 weeks along today. The baby No.3 is moving around healthily and has very good heartbeat which Immi seems to really enjoy listening to. According to the cervical exam, I’m already 2 cm along and the doctor said that the baby is sitting really really low. Now this isn’t exactly a problem, medically speaking. But we are totally not ready to have him yet, so hopefully he’ll choose to stay in for a while longer. I just might have to spend larger portion of my day sitting around, I get sensations that the baby wants to fall out of me when I walk around.
My mom who had been visiting us from Japan left yesterday, and I miss having her around already — thank you for coming! She helped us improve many things during her short stay. One notable thing I’m really excited about being bath towels. We never minded that our towels don’t match, but we’ve been really unhappy about it taking 160 minutes or so to dry in the dryer and that we can’t really ever re-use them since they don’t dry in between use. Actually I would have never thought to try anything different to solve this annoyance if it weren’t for that she mentioned towels in Japan dry much better. So after some considerations, she got us these really thin but very absorbent and totally luxurious Turkish bath towels. We’ve tried them out already, and they are lovely to use (and to look at!) and take less than 15 minutes in the dryer. Not to mention, it’ll save us a lot of room in the closet and in electricity bill.
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